Who is he?

We're standing in my new kitchen. The discussion is surrounding the placement of a microwave I'm getting from a friend who doesn't need it anymore. I'm hesitant to take it but he says, "Look at all the counter space" and offers suggestions as to where it could go. I say "thanks" and smile.

This is a dream I had last night. Most of it is based on fact - the new kitchen, the microwave, my apprehension to bring a microwave into my world after having been without one for a few years...

But who is he?

I have no idea.

This random stand-in for a boyfriend has been in several dreams as of late. They tend to be very rational dreams based on things actually happening in my life. But I wake up with no idea who he is. I can't remember a face, a body, even the voice is generically male.

I wish my subconscious would let me in on the secret.

But maybe there is no guy. Just a desire to fill that role - a role that is right now taken care of by several people (male and female) who keep me satisfied emotionally, intellectually, and sexually.